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What is the difference?

Asexual vs Aromantic

Asexual and aromantic are both spectrum identities and are often abbreviated together as "aroace", so people assume they mean the same thing. Asexual is about sexual attraction; aromantic is about romantic attraction.

Asexual

Describes a person who experiences little or no sexual attraction to others. Asexual people may still want romance, closeness or relationships.

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Aromantic

Describes a person who experiences little or no romantic attraction. Aromantic people may still value close friendships, family and sometimes sexual relationships.

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Side by side

AsexualAromantic
What it describesAsexualLittle or no sexual attraction to others.AromanticLittle or no romantic attraction.
RelationshipsAsexualMay still want romance, closeness or a partner.AromanticMay still value close friendships, family, and sometimes sexual relationships.
Combined withAsexualOften paired with a romantic label, such as biromantic or heteroromantic.AromanticCan be paired with any sexual orientation, including asexual.
Short formAsexualAce.AromanticAro.
Not the same asAsexualAbstinence or distressing low libido.AromanticBeing cold or unable to love.

In short

Asexual answers "do I feel sexual attraction?"; aromantic answers "do I feel romantic attraction?". A person can be one, both or neither.

What they have in common

Both are orientations rather than conditions or choices, both have their own spectrum, and someone can be both (aroace).

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Last reviewed 10 October 2026. Spotted a mistake?