Heart Lexicon

About Heart Lexicon

Heart Lexicon is a free, plain-language dictionary of sexuality, intimacy, relationships, gender and sexual health. It exists so anyone can quietly look up a word they have seen in a profile, a group chat, a doctor's leaflet or a news story, and get a clear, calm answer.

Editorial policy

Review status

534 entries across 10 categories. 208 entries cite sources. 143 entries are health entries; 0 of them have been reviewed by a clinician so far, so health entries carry a "not yet reviewed by a clinician" notice until they are. Every entry shows the date it was last reviewed by an editor.

Entries per category
CategoryEntries
Body & health59
Contraception40
STIs44
Relationships & dating57
Orientations49
Gender & identity51
Consent & boundaries46
Kink & BDSM46
Dating-app slang & abbreviations81
Psychology of intimacy61

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Corrections

Language about sex and identity changes quickly, and communities disagree about some words. If an entry is wrong, out of date or unkind, please tell us through the contact channel of the site that linked you here. We review every correction and update the entry's review date.

If you need help now

If you are in danger, call your local emergency number. For sexual assault, abuse or a sexual health worry, a local rape crisis centre, domestic abuse helpline or sexual health clinic can help confidentially.