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What is the difference?

Bi-curious vs Bisexual

Bi-curious and bisexual are close in wording but describe different places. Bisexual is a sexual orientation, attraction to more than one gender; bi-curious describes curiosity or openness to exploring that attraction, often by someone who identifies as straight or gay.

Bi-curious

Describes someone, often identifying as straight or gay, who is curious about attraction to or experiences with more than one gender.

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Bisexual

Describes a person attracted to more than one gender. It does not require equal attraction to each, or attraction to every gender.

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Side by side

Bi-curiousBisexual
What it describesBi-curiousCuriosity about attraction to, or experiences with, more than one gender.BisexualAttraction to more than one gender.
Is it an orientationBi-curiousUsually not; it describes openness or questioning.BisexualYes, an orientation and identity.
DurationBi-curiousCan be a stage, a lasting description or curiosity that never leads anywhere.BisexualUsually a lasting part of how someone understands themselves.
Where it appearsBi-curiousOften in dating profiles to signal openness to exploring.BisexualIn everyday identity, community and the B of LGBTQ+.
SensitivitiesBi-curiousSome bisexual people dislike its use to suggest bisexuality is not real.BisexualOften wrongly dismissed as a phase or as "half gay, half straight".

In short

Bisexual is an orientation; bi-curious is openness to exploring it. Someone may stay bi-curious, later identify as bisexual, or decide neither fits.

What they have in common

Both involve the possibility of attraction to more than one gender, and both are words people choose for themselves.

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Last reviewed 16 October 2026. Spotted a mistake?