Slow fade - meaning and definition
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Definition
Gradually reducing contact and interest until a connection ends, instead of saying so directly.
At a glance
- Gradually reducing contact until a connection ends.
- Replies get shorter and plans keep being postponed.
- Often used to avoid an uncomfortable conversation.
- It can leave the other person unsure for a long time.
- A short, kind message is usually clearer for both sides.
In detail
Replies become shorter and less frequent, plans are postponed and enthusiasm drops, until communication stops. People often choose the slow fade to avoid an uncomfortable conversation.
Although it may feel gentler to the person fading, the other person can spend a long time unsure of what is happening. A short, kind message is usually clearer for both sides.
In a sentence
- Her replies got shorter every week, and I realised I was getting the slow fade.
- I don't want to do the slow fade on him, so I'll just tell him how I feel.
Not to be confused with
- Ghosting
Ghosting is an abrupt stop, while a slow fade happens gradually.
Common questions
Is the slow fade kinder than ghosting?
It may feel gentler to the person fading, but it often leaves the other person confused for longer. A brief, honest message is usually clearer and kinder.