Simp - meaning and definition
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Definition
Mocking slang for someone seen as overly attentive, devoted or generous towards a person they are attracted to, especially when it is not reciprocated.
At a glance
- A mild insult for someone seen as overly attentive towards a crush.
- Mostly aimed at men, often when the effort is not returned.
- Also used affectionately about oneself.
- Being openly caring is not a flaw; the concern is only one-sided effort.
In detail
Calling someone a simp is a mild insult, mostly aimed at men who go out of their way for a crush. It is also used affectionately about oneself ("I simp for my partner").
The word can carry an unkind edge, suggesting that kindness or effort towards a partner is embarrassing. Being openly caring is not a flaw; the concern is only when effort is one-sided and ignored.
In a sentence
- I simp for my partner and I'm not ashamed of it.
- Calling him a simp for bringing her soup when she was ill seems a bit harsh.
Where the word comes from
Simp was used in early 20th-century American English as a short form of 'simpleton'. Its current dating meaning took off on social media around 2019 and 2020.
Common questions
Is being called a simp an insult?
Usually a mild one, implying that someone is trying too hard for a person who does not return the interest. It is also used jokingly or proudly about being devoted to a partner. Kindness and effort in a relationship are not something to be embarrassed about.