Ally - meaning and definition
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Definition
A person who supports and stands up for a group they do not belong to, such as a straight or cisgender person supporting LGBTQ+ people.
At a glance
- Someone who supports a group they do not belong to.
- Usually seen as an ongoing practice rather than a title.
- Includes listening, using correct names and pronouns, and challenging prejudice.
- The group itself decides whether someone is being a good ally.
- The A in LGBTQIA+ stands for asexual and aromantic, not ally.
In detail
Allyship is usually understood as an ongoing practice rather than a title: listening, learning, using correct names and pronouns, challenging prejudice and backing equal rights.
Many communities stress that being an ally is shown by actions and that people from the group itself decide whether someone is being a good ally. The A in LGBTQIA+ stands for asexual and aromantic, not ally, although this is often misread.
In a sentence
- Being an ally means speaking up when someone makes a homophobic joke, not just wearing a badge.
- Our office's ally network meets once a month to learn and plan events.
Common questions
How can I be a good LGBTQ+ ally?
Listen to LGBTQ+ people, learn about their experiences, use the names and pronouns people ask for, challenge prejudice when you see it and support equal rights. Being open to feedback is part of it.
Does the A in LGBTQIA+ stand for ally?
No. It usually stands for asexual and aromantic, and sometimes agender. Allies are valued supporters but are not what the letter represents.