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BBW - meaning and definition

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Definition

Short for "big beautiful woman": a term for a plus-size woman, used both as a self-description and as a stated preference. BHM ("big handsome man") is the male counterpart.

At a glance

  • Means 'big beautiful woman', a term for a plus-size woman.
  • BHM, 'big handsome man', is the male counterpart.
  • Began as a positive label in the size-acceptance movement.
  • Some find it fetishising when used by others; self-description is what counts.

In detail

BBW originated in the size-acceptance movement of the 1970s and 1980s as a positive, affirming label. Many plus-size women still use it proudly on profiles.

It has also been adopted by adult-content categories, so some people find it fetishising when used by others. As with most labels, how someone describes themselves is what counts.

In a sentence

  • Proud BBW, love karaoke and Sunday roasts.
  • She calls herself BBW, but I'd never assume someone wants that label.

Where the word comes from

BBW was coined by Carole Shaw, who launched a fashion and lifestyle magazine of that name in 1979 as part of the size-acceptance movement.

Common questions

Is BBW a positive or negative term?

It started as a positive, affirming label and many plus-size women still use it proudly. Because it has also been used in adult-content categories, some find it objectifying when others apply it to them.

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