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Beige flag - meaning and definition

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Definition

A quirk in a partner or date that is neither good nor bad, just slightly odd or unexpectedly bland.

At a glance

  • A quirk that is neither good nor bad, just a little odd or bland.
  • Sits between red flags and green flags.
  • Some are endearing once you know someone; others suggest low effort.
  • Not a warning sign on its own.

In detail

Beige flags sit between red and green flags. Examples include always ordering the same meal, narrating their cat's thoughts, or a profile so generic it says nothing at all.

Some beige flags are endearing once you know someone; others suggest a lack of effort. Either way they are not warning signs on their own.

In a sentence

  • Beige flag: he narrates what his cat is thinking.
  • Her profile only says 'I like food and travel'. Bit of a beige flag.

Where the word comes from

Beige flag spread on TikTok around 2022, adding a neutral middle colour to the established red flag and green flag shorthand.

Not to be confused with

  • Red flag

    Red flags are genuine warning signs about someone's behaviour.

Common questions

What are examples of beige flags?

Always ordering the same dish, a very generic profile, giving a pet an elaborate inner life, or quirky habits that surprise you without being a problem.

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